Decide if you would like him to keep that part of his life private, or if you are okay with him being open about it. Think about whether you can accept this part of him without judgement. Reasons to wear a diaper may include convenience, sexual pleasure, or simply preferring the way they feel over regular underwear. Given that diapers are soft, sometimes warm, and positioned right next to the sex organs, it would be surprising if they did not trigger sexual feelings in some people.
If you are in a romantic relationship, you may want to disclose this information before the relationship progresses to a point that the discussion becomes overwhelming. Written in 1997 and 1998, this one's right out of a particularly coherent daydream. Then have an honest conversation with him about how your feeling, and listen to how he feels. Part of full self-acceptance is choosing to accept the parts of yourself that are difficult to accept.
Some individuals involved in diapering express gender fluidity. If the diaper wearer is someone who is in your life, learn to accept the diaper wearing behavior, even if you do not understand it. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 43 5 , 863-877. You may want to tell close friends and family or choose to keep the diaper wearing to yourself. It may be easier to learn to accept this preference in yourself and know that you do not have to act on what you like. There are cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page.
It's important to remember that whether you're an adult baby, a diaper lover, or both, it's more common than publicly acknowledged and there are thousands of people around the world in all cultures who enjoy it, too. People enjoy many types of sexual objects and practices, ranging from leather and rubber, to more unique practices, like wearing clothes of the opposite sex. You may feel strange or ashamed about wearing a diaper and feel unclear where this feeling originates. Trudi Griffin is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Wisconsin. These people derive sexual pleasure out of acting as a baby and being treated like an infant.
Use discretion in your appearance. Online surveys have shown that about half of all diaper lovers choose to wear their diapers daily, rather than as an occasional thing. These things violate my copyright, and the fact that they happen so often discourages writers from publishing on the Internet. Often a person will need to wear a diaper for medical reasons such as incontinence, and begin to enjoy the sensation and the search for better, more comfortable, or more feature-rich briefs. By understanding more about diaper lovers, you can relate better with anyone in your life who prefers to wear diapers. You are not the only person with these feelings and behaviors.
Ask a diaper lover to explain the situation to you. They never published it, however. Realizing that you are a diaper lover can be difficult, and sometimes even traumatic. The behavior is not necessarily tied to baby or infant lifestyle.
I've seen too many good stories sold without the author's permission or consent, sometimes with the author's name removed or even with someone else's name substituted. As a Non-Sexual Activity Wearing a diaper for non-sexual enjoyment is also common. Often, the role playing of being an adult baby is fundamentally non-sexual as babies have no sex drive! Perhaps he would feel comfortable storing them in a plastic garbage bin? Or, to put it another way, guilt is the feeling you have done something bad, shame is the feeling you are bad. Using a diaper is not a medical or physical necessity, but a desire that is consistent with the lifestyle. Looking for that special diaper? Trudi Griffin is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Wisconsin.
Wearing a diaper may feel like a huge difference between you two, but focus on similarities that you share. Originally published serially on alt. Diaper behaviors include wearing a diaper, wetting, and messing in the diaper. The date after the story is the date the story was added to the site.